31. Domestic Violence and the Grave Risk of Harm under the Hague Convention
The Hague Convention of 25 October 1980, on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction seeks to protect children from the harmful effects of abduction and retention across international boundaries. One of the defenses to a return under the Hague Convention is the grave risk of harm to the child. Historically, this defense has been narrowly construed. However, research regarding the impact of domestic violence on children has expanded significantly. This workshop, presented by three extremely experienced lawyers who specialize in representing parties in children abduction proceedings, will look at practices in their respective countries and the impact domestic violence is having upon the case law in this area of international family law.
Max Blitt, KC, LLB, Spier Harben, Calgary, AB, Canada
Jeremy Morley, JD, New York, NY
Michael Stangarone, LLB, MacDonald & Partners, LLP, Toronto, ON, Canada
32. Neuroaffirming Perspectives from a Judge, Lawyer, and Psychologist
With the increase in diagnoses of neurodevelopmental conditions, particularly autism and ADHD, it is important that judges, lawyers, psychologists, and other family law professionals are affirming in their approach to working with neurodivergent children and families. This workshop will explore the complexities of neurodivergence in the courtroom, family law processes, in a psychological and assessment setting, and in day-to-day practice.
Stephanie Lau, MS, Vincent Papaleo and Associates, Melbourne, VIC, Australia
Hon. Megan Christopher, Commonwealth of Massachusetts, Boston, MA
Coralee Elsum, MS, Elsum Family Law, Melbourne, VIC, Australia
33. Working Together: Interdisciplinarity in Action
Interdisciplinarity is considered the gold standard in family law practice—different professions working together to better serve families in need through respectful, non-hierarchical partnering and consultation. But in reality, interdisciplinarity is hard work. In this workshop, guiding participants through a case consultation, the following questions will be addressed: How do we work together productively when we speak different languages and see family problems through different lenses? How do we challenge one another without creating rifts? What are the benefits of an interdisciplinary rolodex? Is it worth the work? How can interdisciplinary practice improve our professional practices? How does one build an interdisciplinary practice?
Marsha Kline Pruett, PhD, ABPP, Smith College, Northampton, MA
Stacey E. Platt, JD, Loyola Univ. Chicago School of Law, Chicago, IL
34. Triage Tool Usability and Usefulness: Right Services, Right Families, Right Time
The Pathways Project aims to improve court efficiency and child well-being through early case management, particularly for cases involving high conflict, domestic violence, trauma, or substance misuse. Usability testing through CU Law’s Access to Justice Innovation Lab identified areas for improvement, while ASU's Youth and Family in Court Systems (YFaCS) Lab assessed the tool's effectiveness using validated risk measures. Results showed strong associations between risk scores and high-risk case pathways, demonstrating the tool's potential to prioritize resources for families most in need.
Karey L. O'Hara, PhD, Arizona State Univ., Tempe, AZ
Hon. Keven O'Grady, Kansas 10th Judicial District, Olathe, KS
Amy G. Applegate, JD, Indiana Univ. Maurer School of Law, Bloomington, IN
Staci Pratt, JD, LLM, Univ. of Colorado Law School, Boulder, CO
Alicia Davis, JD, National Center for State Courts, Chicago, IL
35. Parenting Is a Job — Post-Separation Parenting Is a Job Share
Parenting is a job and post-separation parenting, or shared parenting, is a job share. Shared parenting requires communication, decision making, problem-solving, and conflict resolution in four areas of interest: education; health, wellness, and safety; optional enrichment activities; and family. Through the consideration of a clearly laid out parenting job description and standards to evaluate the parents, this workshop connects the dots between parents’ behaviors and the best interests of the children with the principles of job-sharing.
Allen L. Levy, MS, Generations Family Consulting, LLC, Anchorage, AK
36. Beyond the Mighty CCE: Preserving the Benefits While Mitigating the Challenges
Child custody evaluations (CCE) can be a valuable tool to the court and to families embroiled in high-conflict custody matters. CCEs also can augment costs, incur delays, increase conflict and stress, promulgate bias, and misrepresent the social science literature. In this interactive workshop, the Massachusetts AFCC working group will share how they are exploring alternatives to the mighty CCE and its progress on identifying new “products” and “services," ranging from new reports to interventions that circumvent reports, to entirely different legal processes and court structures. The panelists will invite audience comments on these alternatives and best practices and challenges to engaging families.
Jessica P. Greenwald O'Brien, PhD, Natick, MA
Yael Osman, PsyD, SD Family Services, Inc., Canton, MA
Hon. Diana S. Velez Harris, Hampshire Probate and Family Court, Northampton, MA
Ellen Waldorf, JD, eWaldorf Mediation, Newton Upper Falls, MA
37. Applying Family Systems in Conflicted Families
What do professionals mean when they describe a family in terms of “Family Systems” and how do we consider this concept when working with families? This presentation will provide some tools for use in working with conflicted families and support a paradigm shift enabling professionals to move from just talking about family systems to applying the Family Systems Theory in their work both in and outside the courthouse.
Lori Thibodeau, MA, LMFT, The Bridging Center, Bloomington, MN
Kevin J. Chafin, MA, LPC, Kansas City, MO
Simone A. Haberstock, JD, LLM, St. Louis, MO
38. Unmasking Identity Bias: Stereotyping, Discrimination, and Family Law Outcomes
This workshop explores the psychological mechanisms of prejudice, stereotyping, and discrimination, focusing on how biases (e.g., racial, gender, socioeconomic, cultural) manifest in family law, particularly in parental access cases. Participants will learn how implicit and explicit biases can impact legal processes and outcomes, gaining strategies to identify and minimize their influence in family law work. Case studies will highlight how prejudice and stereotyping can affect parenting plan decisions and disadvantage marginalized individuals.
Chioma Ajoku, JD, PhD, ABPP, Forensic Psych Solutions, Brooklyn, NY
39. Understanding Child Sexual Abuse Forensic Interviews and Evaluations
Allegations of child sexual abuse can arise within the context of a child custody evaluation. When that occurs the child custody evaluation is placed on hold, Child Protective Services undertakes an investigation, and the child is interviewed at a child advocacy center (CAC) by a trained child forensic interviewer. This presentation will explore the various protocols utilized to conduct a child forensic interview, explain the process, and compare and contrast to a child sexual abuse forensic evaluation.
Lawrence Jay Braunstein, JD, Braunstein & Zuckerman, Esqs., White Plains, NY
Julie Kenniston, MSW, LISW, National Criminal Justice Training Center, Mason, OH
40. Updating the Model Standards for Divorce and Family Mediators for the 21st Century
An AFCC/ABA Family Law Section Interdisciplinary Task Force was appointed in 2022 to revise the 2001 Model Standards of Practice for Divorce and Family Mediators. Since 2001, many changes have occurred in the field of family mediation. The task force divided up into subcommittees and met as a large group to examine the individual standards, overarching themes, and specific language. Major and minor changes have been considered. Important topics have included prioritizing self-determination and informed decision-making, the need to address the widespread use of technology in mediation, advances in best practices dealing with domestic abuse, child abuse and neglect, updated protocols about capacity and how to include the voice of children. The task force reporter and members will present updates and review the current status of the revised standards.
Kelly Browe Olson, JD, LLM, Univ. of Arkansas-Little Rock Bowen School of Law, Little Rock, AR
Donna Erez-Navot, JD, Institute for Dispute Resolution, Univ. of Florida Levin College of Law, Gainesville, FL
41. Domestic Violence in Louisiana: A View from the Bench
Have you ever wondered how the judiciary views domestic violence, stalking and sexual assault cases? Have you ever pondered the facts and laws that a judge, commissioner, or hearing officer considers in deciding these cases? This session seeks to highlight a judicial perspective in decision making on these important cases in a true/false, interactive session and gives participants an inside look at how and why decisions are made.
Hon. Maggie Simar, 16th Judicial District Court, St. Martinville, LA
Hon. John Guidry, Chief Judge, First Circuit Court of Appeal, Baton Rouge, LA
42. Draining the Swamp—Preventing and Responding to “Stuck” Child Custody Cases
High conflict child custody matters can pose extraordinary challenges when pro se representation can delay or derail proceedings, attorney zealous advocacy devolves into emotionally fraught litigation trench warfare, judicial prudence gives into stagnating indecisiveness, parenting plan evaluator guidance becomes thinly veiled partisanship or departs from reliable behavioral science, and/or expert testimony serves to complicate rather than resolve issues. Cases can take months to years to resolve. This workshop identifies common factors contributing to the derailing of cases and describes strategies for preventing or addressing derailed cases for judges, attorneys, evaluators, court staff, parties, and others.
Robin M. Deutsch, PhD, ABPP, Newton Centre, MA
Robert T. Kinscherff, PhD, JD, Center for Law, Brain & Behavior, Cambridge, MA
Hon. Christina Harms (Ret.), William James College, Newton, MA
43. When to Lawyer Up: Effective Use of the Legal Team in Resist-Refuse Cases
Families experiencing separation or divorce face a host of legal, emotional, and relational challenges. When parent-child contact problems (PCCP) arise, the intersection of mental health treatment and legal intervention becomes critical. A team-based approach, integrating legal and mental health professionals, can provide a customized strategy for addressing resist-refuse dynamics (RRD) and facilitating positive family outcomes. This collaboration helps ensure that the legal process supports—rather than complicates—therapeutic goals. However, there are times when involving the legal team may be counterproductive, disrupting treatment progress and family healing. This workshop will explore the strategic use of legal professionals in RRD cases, helping participants navigate when and how to align legal actions with therapeutic goals. Attendees will leave with practical tools for fostering more effective collaboration between legal and mental health professionals, enhancing outcomes in these complex cases.
Premela Deck, JD, PhD, SD Family Services, Inc., Canton, MA
Jacqueline Cafaro, MSW, SD Family Services, Inc., Canton, MA
Hon. Randy Kaplan (Ret.), Ligris + Associates, Boston, MA
Evey Diaz, JD, Casner & Edwards, LLP, Boston, MA
44. Teens, Tech, and AI—What you Need to Know
Today’s youth use technology for nearly all interactions: communication, education, and entertainment. As family law professionals working with families in conflict, you have a responsibility to understand how technology is being used in these cases, especially involving children. In this interactive workshop, the panelists will discuss and demonstrate technologies that are being used by our youth to cause harm, harass, and threaten others. They will explore artificial intelligence (AI), smartphone technology, location applications, and commonly and uncommonly used social networking sites.
Mindy F. Mitnick, EdM, MA, Minneapolis, MN
Steven Bradley, MBA, OurFamilyWizard, Pottsboro, TX
45. Preflight Checklist: Positioning Parties to Succeed After Our Involvement is Done
Following plane malfunctions in the 1930s, the military began using a preflight checklist, to establish standardized procedures and verify that critical steps were followed for a successful flight. Our clients work with us to solve a problem, but the end of the case for practitioners is the point of takeoff for clients. In this session presenters will use a lot of flight metaphors (and sound effects?) to offer a standard practice to implement as our cases end. Participants will receive practical advice and a checklist template to begin using.
Christopher Vatsaas, JD, Tuft, Lach, Jerabek & O’Connell, PLLC, Maplewood, MN
Victoria A. Elsmore, JD, Ramsey County Judicial Branch, Saint Paul, MN
Lori Thibodeau, MA, The Bridging Center, Edina, MN
Melanie I. Nelson, JD, Tuft, Lach, Jerabek, & O'Connell, PLLC, Maplewood, MN
46. Children and Parents Comment on Transitions: Objects, Locations, and Routines
Most children whose parents/caregivers separate or live separately move between households and often locations. How children, young people and parents view transitions is poorly understood. Many use various forms of digital technologies to support connection. In some cases, those remain the primary form of engagement, but little is known how children and young people view this. This presentation aims to provide some ideas about the voices of those most impacted by the transition process.
Sarah Calvert, PhD, Auckland, New Zealand
47. Gender-Affirming Care 101
This workshop introduces family court professionals to the basics of gender-affirming care, covering key terminology related to gender identity and expression. Participants will learn about social and medical aspects of affirming care, including social transitions, hormone therapy, and surgeries. The session will also address the barriers transgender and gender non-conforming individuals face in accessing care, equipping attendees with tools to create supportive and affirming environments in their professional roles.
Lindsey Sank Davis, PhD, William James College, Brookline, MA
Gavin Meade, MA, William James College, Newton, MA
Jack Burke, MA, William James College, Newton, MA
48. Family Dispute Resolution: Process and Practice
This workshop will discuss and synthesize Family Dispute Resolution: Process and Practice, a recent Oxford University Press book. The 29 chapters cover a variety of topics including Family Specialty Courts, IPV, LGBTQIA+, family arbitration, working with children with special needs and what's next for family dispute resolution processes. The workshop will present options for using the book in training and graduate classes as well as for a reference for program personnel.
Kelly Browe Olson, JD, LLM, Univ. of Arkansas-Little Rock Bowen School of Law, Little Rock, AR
49. Disruptive Innovation in Family Law: Is a Netflix/Airbnb Approach Possible?
This workshop addresses the ongoing challenges in family court, particularly in high-conflict cases that involve multiple professionals and significant resources. Traditional approaches often fall short, raising critical questions about effectiveness and child welfare. The panelists will explore transformative strategies inspired by disruptive models like Netflix and Airbnb. Participants will learn to implement early interventions, tailor solutions, and reduce conflict outside the legal framework, with the ultimate goal of equipping professionals with tools to minimize toxic stress and foster healthier family dynamics.
Hon. Bruce Cohen (Ret.), High Conflict Institute, San Diego, CA
Megan Hunter, MBA, High Conflict Institute, San Diego, CA
50. Language Matters—How the Words We Use Impact Possibilities for Families
Language is critical to how we define problems and the causes and solutions we consider. Disputes about professional language may detract from the focus on children’s needs, increase polarization and increase obstacles to problem solving. These issues can arise in a variety of cases, ranging from parent-child contact problems, to disputes about children’s medical, mental health or educational needs, to use or misuse of diagnostic terms. The presenter will address these impacts and propose practices to identify accurate information, improve discourse, and promote healthy solutions for families.
Lyn R. Greenberg, PhD, ABPP, Los Angeles, CA
51. Mediating High-Conflict Cases: 10 Paradigm Shifts
This session will address 10 key paradigm shifts for mediators, including three traditional approaches to avoid: trying for insight, trying to resolve the past, and addressing emotions. The focus shifts to teaching and guiding clients to use four simple problem-solving skills during the mediation process. The structure and tasks of this approach, called New Ways for Mediation, are based on the presenter’s book Mediating High Conflict Disputes (2021), which draws on his forty years’ experience in divorce and custody mediation. The program will include video clips and case examples.
Bill Eddy, MSW, JD, High Conflict Institute, Scottsdale, AZ
52. Dibling-Dumpling Donuts: Mind Your Language When Talking about Donor Conception
Using correct terminology to clarify roles, relationships, and genetic connections in parenting matters involving donated gametes or embryos is essential to avoid causing confusion or offense and encourages a child centric approach. The presenters will take a deep dive into the murky waters of the fertility industry to explain why words matter and why it is so important to mind your language when talking about donor conception.
Wendy Kramer, The Donor Sibling Registry, Nederland, CO
Fiona Darroch, MPsych, The Relationspace, Sydney, NSW, Australia
53. Personality Trait Research, Parenting, & CCEs: The Science We Have Been Ignoring
This workshop will cover the utility of the Five Factor Model (FFM) of personality for child custody evaluations (CCEs). Using the FFM in evaluating parents in CCEs offers reliable data based on a voluminous research foundation on normal personality functioning and various forms of psychopathology and use of research relating these issues to hypotheses about parenting. Research data on use of the NEO-PI-3 in CCEs, including new validity scale data, will be presented.
Milfred “Bud” Dale, PhD, JD, Topeka, KS
54. The CARE Program: Background, Innovation, & Efficacy Relative to Duration & Dose
This workshop will provide background on the Co-Parenting After Romance Ends (CARE) online, asynchronous program and innovation in its design. This program features tailored content, specific to four distinctive family forms and circumstances, as well as five dosages. This workshop will present findings from an external evaluation to determine change in indicators consistent with goals of the program to reduce conflict, increase collaborative co-parenting, and reduce re-litigation. Effects are also explored relative to program dosage (2-12 hours) and duration (time participants engaged with the materials).
Nolanda Robert, MS, CCFC, OnlineParentingPrograms.com, Bel Air, MD
Anthony J. Ferraro, PhD, Kansas State Univ., Manhattan, KS
Melinda Stafford Markham, PhD, Kansas State Univ., Manhattan, KS
55. Ontario’s Novel (and Easily Exportable!) Family Court Processes
When family law proceedings are commenced, an aggressive litigation culture often tends to prevail, to the detriment of the parties and their children. The problem with that aggressive litigation culture was diagnosed in Ontario some time ago. Its court system has adopted various processes to remedy the worst aspects of that culture. Utilizing the Ontario experience, this workshop will present some of the ways that a family court culture can be transformed from one typified by aggressive litigation to one that is more trauma-informed, dignified, and settlement-focused.
Justice Kendra Coats, Ontario Superior Court of Justice, Milton, ON, Canada
Justice Marvin Kurz, Ontario Superior Court of Justice, Milton, ON, Canada
Brian Burke, LLB, Burke and Co. Family Law Litigation and Advocacy Group, Toronto, ON, Canada
56. Addressing the Shortage of Qualified Supervised Visitation Providers
Join this engaging workshop on the Supervised Visitation Network (SVN) Business Accelerator Initiative, a transformative program aimed at fostering community support for the development and collaboration with supervised visitation providers. This session will delve into various strategies communities can implement to enhance the capacity of these providers, ensuring they receive the necessary training, mentorship, and resources. Participants will explore how the SVN Business Accelerator Initiative can serve as a vital component in this collaborative effort, promoting advocacy, diversity, and inclusion. Participants will learn how to create a robust network that empowers families to access safe and effective visitation experiences.
Joe Nullet, BA, Supervised Visitation Network, Jacksonville, FL
57. Uncharted Waters: Research Findings of Therapists in High-Conflict Divorces
Therapists who are unprepared to work with high-conflict families often show reluctance or withdraw from engaging with the families and other involved professionals. Despite the increasing need for their support, there is limited research on therapists' experiences and effective practices in this area. This workshop will explore findings from a dissertation study analyzing therapists' beliefs, attitudes, and approaches through phenomenological data analysis. The presenters will discuss these findings and their implications for improving therapy practices with such families, specifically surrounding what legal professionals can do to engage with mental health professionals.
Erin Guyette, PhD, LMFT, Guyette Family Guidance, Maple Grove, MN
Megan Oudekerk, PsyD, LMFT, Cedar Valley Therapy, Eagan, MN
58. Coparent Training for Front-Line Personnel in Child- and Family-Serving Agencies
This workshop presents a novel training and consultation program that communities can use to upskill conflict resolution competencies of diverse front-line providers across child- and family-serving agencies. “Connected Coparenting” was designed by national coparenting experts, agency organizational leaders, and community members attuned to sensibilities of diverse families. The curriculum, customized training, and consultation model—currently supporting over 50 health and human services, substance abuse, child welfare, and kinship care providers serving pregnant and parenting families—challenges in organizational uptake and implementation, and evaluation of child and family impact will be addressed.
Kacey Jenkins, PhD, Univ. of South Florida, St. Petersburg, FL
James McHale, PhD, Univ. of South Florida, St. Petersburg, FL
April Harris-Britt, PhD, AHB Forensic and Consulting Services, Durham, NC
Carla Stover, PhD, Yale Univ. Child Study Center, New Haven, CT
59. How Conflict Can Keep Us Together: The “Normal Chaos” of Child Custody Cases
Ideally, child custody cases resolve through mediation. This workshop addresses those that do not. The focus is on “normal chaos,” which means conflict that can derail resolution without the severity of high-conflict problems. The panelists will present a framework to identify underlying needs and parent conflict dynamics that are likely to require more than one or two mediation sessions. Participants learn how case triage can include assessment of conflict dynamics driven by non-mutual separation, persisting negative co-parenting dynamics, and other conflict interaction that does not meet a “high-conflict’ threshold.
Don Saposnek, PhD, Family Mediation Service, Aptos, CA
Alexandra Crampton, MSW, PhD, Marquette Univ., Milwaukee, WI
60. Military as a Minority: Veterans and the Family Court System
Veterans and service members (SMs) must contend with unique barriers that place them at a disadvantage from the outset of a custody matter when seeking what they deem is an equitable child custody or visitation arrangement. The presenters offer recommendations to reduce the barriers veterans and SMs must contend with based on success states have had with specialty courts as well as recent legislation passed in California. State and federal agencies must collect and analyze data to understand veterans and SMs perceptions and the specific manner their status impacted or is impacting their child custody.
Erhan Bedestani, JD, MS, Warrior Family Advocacy, Arlington, VA
Roger Hill, MBA, Warrior Family Advocacy, Arlington, VA